In this article I am going to give several of my tried and true methods for decluttering you closet, and creating new habits to building your ideal wardrobe.
STEP 1:
Take out all the items that you wear all the time. Your “go-tos.” Those things you feel the most comfortable in. And this can be by category- favorite work outfits, lounge outfits, runnings errands, workouts, etc. Lay them all out and look for common themes. Cut, color, size, style, type, etc.
STEP 2:
Create a “maybe” pile. These are the pieces that you like, but you don’t reach for them as much. For example, I have a super cute graphic tee that is just not as oversized as I wish it were. I like it and the fit is fine, but it’s not something I wear often. Set that “maybe” pile aside because we will circle back to it at the end.
STEP 3:
Look at your remaining clothing items, and take them out one by one. Ask yourself: Why is it not my favorite? Why isn’t it my go to? Do I like the style or was it an impulse buy that looked cute on the influencer but didn’t look good on me? And, perhaps the toughest question, Am I waiting to lose a few pounds so it will fit me right? A note about weight… Be honest with yourself, but also be kind. It’s better for our mental health to have clothes that flatter our body than to have clothes with a certain size number. Toss anything that isn’t working for you right now. Think you might lose weight and someday fit in that size? Great! Use it as a motivation. Reward yourself with new clothes when that day comes. In the meantime, if you walk in your closet and stare at clothes that don’t fit your body, it will hurt your mental health. Remember our goal, you want to love everything in your closet and FEEL GREAT!
STEP 4:
Now that you’ve cleared everything out and purged all those pieces that definitely aren’t working for you, let’s revisit that “maybe” pile. The reason we do this last is because you’re on a roll. When you get rid of the Definitely NO items, it makes it easier to look at the Maybe items with new eyes. Again, be kind to yourself. That graphic tee that doesn’t fit just right so you don’t wear it much… let it go.
Now you’ve purged your closet down to the best of the best, the MVPs, the creme de la creme… use this as your guide for all future purchases. This is how you define your personal style. You have established the types, colors, fits, and sizes you prefer. Now make a list of the common elements. I’ll use myself as an example… I put all of my favorite outfits together. (See picture below)